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Thursday, April 7, 2011

4 ways to leave an abusive relationship

If you are a victim of domestic violence and feel free to start again completely sure you should really want to try what you want because otherwise you who abused you and return with sorry to leave, only allows the situation becomes more serious than they were before.

Abusive relationship you should think about an escape plan you have decided to leave. The plan for a close relative or friend living in a home can involve not have to leave. In this case a third party, which will include them would be very upset and somewhat dangerous. You flee a while you took out your plan should inform decision.

Look ahead

You forward in a distant city you lived with the person who abused you should look for a new job. You act quickly and go for immediate treatment to help you off your stroke. Person at least needs to know about their decision because their abuser to all on your side through to try.

Problems

If you run away or to change may not be able to work, the first thing you do is abuse of the court and they are known to present evidence. Judge extended a restraining order. With this command every time you have it. If the abuser comes to your home or your workplace, you judge the police and arrested for violating the order can call.

In relation to financial matters If you feel stuck or want or you think you only love their abuser, or leave their children without a father because no, you must understand that you just get rid of interposing excuses to avoid the circle dancing. You have to bear in mind that the abuser will not change. In contrast, abused every day gradually increase and the violence continues, you and your children are in danger of death.

Here are four without any sense of guilt for leaving an abusive relationship methods:

1. Receive counseling and therapy before you end the relationship without strong desire to make a decision Do not rush. Codependency program to help victims well understand their feelings by the abuser not love but an emotional attachment are worthless are appropriate.

2. Looking for legal advice. If you are a lawyer yourself any court and seek a public defender to help the legal side you can arrange child custody, restraining orders and other legal affairs department of the property can not hire. You go to a family court and state your case.

3. Call toll-free domestic violence, but due to get their abuser can trace your call from your phone No. Nor a cell phone, your office phone or a payphone or a friend or relative you work.

4. Be prepared in a package, health insurance card, vaccination certificates of their children and their children as any other valuable documents and birth certificates, marriage license, personal identification and other documents as documents of their family.

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4 ways to leave an abusive relationship

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